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Day 2

 Fred and Alice got up on Sunday, their second day at the clinic, and had breakfast.  They reported to the lounge at 11 AM as they were told to do, to watch the video on anal sex and hear some discussion and pointers on it.   Some of the men looked curiously around the room at the other people, but many of the women were doing things like picking at their nails, and generally looked embarrassed.  Soon Bridgett came in, and she had the video ready to go, and clicked it on. The video first had a doctor discussing safety and health issues of anal play and anal sex. Then there was a video showing several different couples with first foreplay and then anal sex.  These weren't models, but ordinary looking people and couples.

 Alice would look at the video, then look down, nervously.  Some of the women seemed to watch intently, others also would look down, or out the window. She knew she would be expected to do this.  And she didn't know if she could.

 Bridgett then made an announcement that there was a change of plans, and that the men would have a lecture and discussion for several hours on the other aspects of marriage that affect women's desire, and the women would have an "Orgasm Seminar".  The women were to report at 12:30 to room 116 and the men to 118.  They would eat at 2:30,, then have practice time in their rooms after that.  Bridgett and the doctor would come room to room and give time to each couple to discuss their successes, difficulties, and answer questions.  They would ask to see a few minutes demonstration of self pleasuring techniques by the women, and then anal sex. They could then retrieve everything from their lockers and check out whenever they wanted to.

Men's Seminar

 The men were not looking forward to their seminar, and were much more interested in the women's seminar.  The psychologist and marriage therapist, Dr. Harley told them to have a seat.  He discussed women's emotional needs and their connection with their sexuality.  He said that if men wanted to have a good sex life, things like spending time doing things together, talking, following through on commitments and promises such as doing household chores mattered!  They did some questionnaires, looked at the results, and then had a a discussion about their own experiences.

Women's Seminar

 Bridget led the orgasm seminar.  The women came in and look quizzically at little gift boxes on the carpet, and a stack of large towels..  Bridgett waited till all six women arrived and then told them to sit on the carpet.  She told them that this would be a hands on seminar.  They would learn to have an orgasm by themselves, would experiment with some "toys" and would pair up to use the toys on each other.  The women stared at her in disbelief!  They looked at each other, with their eyes wide open!  Bridgett stood up and announced that she wanted the women to take off all their clothes quickly, and most of their jewelry, and put it in piles at the edge of the room.  "Hurry up now" Bridgett ordered.  They turned with their backs to each other and slowly removed their clothes and then put them by the walls. Bridgett asked them to grab a towel, and a box and to sit in a circle.  The women did as they were told.  They looked curiously at the boxes, which were beautiful wrapped.  Bridgett told them to open them.  Inside were gloves, oil, lotions, ky, gloves, as well as several different kinds of vibrators.  One type was an electrical type for home use, and several were battery operated types for use today. There were egg shapes that went into the vagina, dildo shapes, and a knob type for stimulating the clitoris.    Bridgett discussed the various toys, and said the gift boxes were theirs to keep. She asked to hear about each woman's experiences with masturbating and orgasm.  How had she been able to come in the past?  Had she had any difficulties?  What were common experiences?  The women looked at each other's bodies, but seemed to adjust fairly quickly to being nude, just as being in a locker room of nude women. They were encouraged by listening to each other and poured out their stories of being caught masturbating, feeling guilty doing it, and having difficulties have orgasms during sex with their husbands.

 Bridgett discussed how important it was to really understand your own body, that each one is unique, and yet their are many things in common.  It is important to know what turns you on, and what you need to climax. Its important to have a variety of sexual techniques, because anything can get stale if done the same all the time. She suggested having a cup of things they really enjoyed sexually, or wanted to try with their partners, and have their partners in their as well, half and half, and take turns each drawing a slip with an idea to try that day.

Massaging with Each Other

 Then Bridgett asked the women to pair up and start with massaging each other with one of the lotions. They should spread the towels out and lay on them so the lotion didn't get in the carpet.  They should spend 10 minutes each massaging each other.  They could decide if genitals were off limits or not at this point, but they would be helping each other with the toys later. And they needed to include breasts.

 The women nervously looked at each other, wondering who looked non threatening, Bridgett began to her left and said "you two", "you two" around the room till they were all paired up.  The one sitting to the left in the circle is the one to be massaged first.  The women spread their towels, and the half laid face down on the towels after a few whispered negotiations with their partners  "don't touch me there, OK?".  The massagers took the lotion in their palms to warm it first, as Bridgett instructed.

  They began at the neck and shoulders, spending lots of time on the arms, then back. After three minutes Bridgett said we only have ten minutes for each person, so you should be down to the buttocks now.  Some of the women lightly went over the tops of the buttocks.  Bridgett got down on her knees next to Alice, took the lotion from her partner, and said "let me demonstrate some techniques for the buttocks" as she quickly took both hands and  rubbed hard in large circles, raising the cheeks as she did so, then pulling them slightly out and apart.  Please each try that. The women seemed to enjoy exposing their reluctant partners when given permission. "Ladies, I want you to learn these techniques so you can do them on your partners at home.

  And you will experience the vulnerability and anticipation of the erotic massage.  Now please move your hand up and down the crack of your partners buttocks quickly, letting fingers catch in the anus. Like this."  Alice gasped slightly.  Bridgett reached down and put both hands between Alice's thighs to spread them wider, then repeated the technique.  When you massage the thighs bring your hands high up to start, so that the bottom of the buttocks are included, and circle the hands around the thighs, letting them brush the genitals."  Alice blushed deep red as Bridgett's expert hands demonstrated this technique. " Ok, ladies, everyone try this, then quickly continue down the legs and briefly spend about 30 seconds on the feet.  You can use very firm strokes on the calves and the feet.  Separate the toes some, and massage each one. Usually you would spend a lot more time, but we have a lot of territory to cover today".

 The massagers gingerly massaged the areas Bridgett asked them to, with some on the receiving end  moaning with pleasure.  This seemed to encourage the massagers, who became more enthusiastic.  Bridgett went around to each team, spreading some legs, and making sure each technique was tried.  "Ok, Ladies, time to turn over on your backs.  You have spent enough time on the arms before, so make sure you massage the breasts, and the bellies.  I will show you  a few strokes for the breasts".  Bridget got down next to Athena this time,  and spread warmed lotion from her shoulders then over her entire breast area. Then she demonstrated light circles with finger tips, firm rubbing with the flat palm of the hand,  and firmer circles and rubbing of the nipples.  Athena smiled, then began breathing quickly and said "that feels awfully good Bridgett!"  "Let's try that now". Ruth was massaging Alice, and Alice closed her eyes as Ruth did the breast strokes on her, and her breathing quickened.  The ladies continued to massage bellies, and hips and legs a little bit from the front.  "Ok, ladies, please trade places".  Bridgett kept them moving along so they finished in ten minutes.

Masturbating in a Circle Together

  Then she asked them to take out the knob vibrator, as well as a wand type vibrator. She asked them to form a circle with their heads out and their feet in the circle, with their feet touching a hula hoop that she placed in the middle of the room. She directed them to massage their breasts, then thighs.   She asked them to bring their knees up, and let them fall to the sides as far as they could.  Some of the women kept their knees together, and Bridgett, annoyed, went and took her hands on the inside of each knee and pushed them down to the carpet. "I want you to feel exposed, and I want you to relax your body and be open to its pleasures.  Now first use one hand to separate the labia, and with the other explore the feelings of the outer and inner labia.  Then experiment with touches to the clitoris, over the top, under , to the sides and various pressures.  You may close your eyes if you wish."  Bridgett was aroused to see the women exposed and exploring their bodies like this.  After three or four minutes, Bridgett asked the women to use first one finger, then two, in their vaginas, and then to add clitoral stimulation after she said to.  Bridgett shook her head as it was obvious several women had never touch their genitals for the purpose of pleasure.  Such a shame. Several women closed their eyes, and seemed expert and quickly went to a certain type of clitoral stimulation with the fingers in their vaginas.

 Introducing Toys to Group

 Bridgett asked the women to take first the wand vibrator, then the knob one, and experiment for the next thirty minutes.  They could move their legs now, as they wished, but needed to stay in the circle.  Bridgett suggested they start stimulating areas around the clitoris, and not directly on it.  She asked who had used any type of vibrators before, and none of the women spoke up. The women gratefully moved their stiff legs a bit.  Bridgett told them to try the Ky gel if they wished. Then she moved to the outside of the circle to observe them.  Bridgett demonstrates on Samantha. After ten minutes, Bridgett decided to intervene a little.  One lady, Samantha, wasn't getting anywhere.  She was keeping the vibrators far away from inner labia and clitoris.  Bridgett asked the ladies to stop a few minutes, and to observe.  She moved to the middle of their feel and knelt down to Samantha. She put gloves on and told Sam to spread her legs the way they did before, with knees to floor.  Sam blushed deeply and said she didn't need help.  Bridgett said, "oh, you certainly do need help!!"  "No wonder you have never had an orgasm in your life!"  Bridgett pushed Sam's knees down further and told her to keep them there for now. She pulled on the gloves with a snap,, and applied KY to her fingers.  She asked the other ladies to gather round and observe, and they did.

    Bridgett took her gloved fingers and first stimulated the labial area, then clitoris, using various pressures, and from various positions.  Sam tensed and said it felt really weird.  Bridgett said for her to feel the feelings, and not to worry.  Bridgett then put two fingers in Sam and felt all around.  She then massage her G spot for quite a few minutes, then added stimulation to clitoris again with other hand.  Sam was breathing quickly and was agitated. Bridgett continued, "as you remember from your examinations yesterday, some women are also sensitive in the anal area."  Sam tried to close her legs.  Bridgett asked her to bring her legs to her chest, then asked two women to each take a leg and pull out and back, pulling her hips up a bit.  Sam protested, but Bridgett insisted.  Bridgett always made things worse if a person crossed her, and Sam just hadn't learned this yet. Bridgett lubed her fingers and put first one finger against Sam's anus,  massaging the outside, then quickly put her finger all the way in.  Sam screamed, which wasn't  a good idea.  The other women tried to comfort and calm her.  A few seemed rather aroused at the sight.  Bridgett used the other hand to take her flat three fingers and apply them from top to bottom of her vagina, over and over.  Sam was breathing hard, but still straining against her legs being held. "Alice and Athena, hold Sam's shoulders down firmly please.  Some women are not able to allow themselves to feel pleasure.  We will try to get her past this".  Bridgett then put two fingers in Sam's rear end, and applied stimulation first to her G spot, then clitoris, while keeping the two fingers moving in and out.  Sam began screaming,, "stop stop!!  I think I have to go to the bathroom!"  but Bridgett continued, and tried to find the combination that seemed to have the most affect.  Then she took the knob vibrator and applied it all around her clitoris.  Sam's eyes were wide and her hips attempted to buck and move, as she groaned and strained.  Finally she tensed, shuddered, and climaxed.  Bridgett kept the vibrator on the side of her clit and kept it there until she had completely relaxed.  "Ok, girls, go to it.  Let me know if you need help."

 The ladies were now quite enthusiastic in trying out their vibrators.  Bridgett wanted to let them experiment and figure things out for themselves if possible.  Sam was smiling broadly after having her first orgasm, and was flushed from head to toe. She was experimenting now with the wand.  One after the other the women came, and came hard.  The embarrassment, and observing these other women seemed to ad to the excitement.   Bridget waited until they were all finished, and asked them to describe the feeling of a climax.  Did they flush?  Could they feel the definite spasms of their uterus?  Was their a feeling of urgency right before they came, almost like the feeling of having to pee?  Did they notice the sudden wetness inside when they came?  She asked them to put their fingers inside and feel. "Although you get wet when excited, when you climax, there is a sudden release of wetness. Some women actually have a type of ejaculation, through the urethra as well.

Trying Rectal Dildos

  Now I would like to demonstrate one more technique and then have you pair up and each try it.  Sam, please come here, and I'd like you on all fours, then bend down and put your shoulders to the carpet, and your head to the side. No, spread your legs about two feet apart.  There, stay there now.  Bridgett put on a pair of gloves again, and took out a smaller dildo type wand from Sam's box.  The slowly lubricated it with KY,  explaining what she was doing to the group, and leaving Sam waiting with her ass up in the air. Bridgett really didn't like passive women like sam that well.   Bridgett again put her finger in Sam's rectum, describing what she was doing as she went along. Then she took the wand and slowly inserted it into Sam's rectum, as the group stared speechless. Sam protested ‘No, No, not there" as Bridgett slowly pushed it in.  Bridgett then explained that stimulation in the vagina or on clitoris would help her relax, and applied the other hand in first one area, then another.  Bridgett moved the wand in and out for five minutes, until Sam relaxed her anus, and the wand could move more easily. Bridgett said this would help them learn how to relax for anal sex, and to know pair up again and each try the technique on each other.  The women sat there, and looked at Bridget.  Bridgett replied "hurry up ladies, or would you rather I brought in your husbands to try this on you in a group?"  The women teamed up again, with one getting gloves on, gingerly massaging anus, introducing fingers for a long time, then the dildo vibrator.  Bridgett went along and positioned them more to her liking with their knees far apart, and shoulders down.  With a few pairs, she took the wand away, when she thought they were being too tentative, and pushed the wand in herself.  She loved feeling the resistance, instructing them to bear down, exhale, and slowly push it in .  Then she stepped back and let them work on this for  a half hour.

Finished

 Ok, ladies you can get dressed and gather your things.  You will now join your husbands, and have the last private session in your rooms.  As the women began dressing, Bridgett opened the door and found the men in the hall waiting and probably listening.  Several glimpsed into the room before the door shut.  After five minutes Bridgett knocked and warned she was opening the door, and entered.  She asked the men to come in a few minutes for some last instructions.  They were to go to their rooms, completely undress, could shower each other and engage in whatever foreplay their wives chose.  They should let her be in charge at this point.  Then after at least 45 minutes of shower and foreplay they were to try the anal stimulation and massage, and stretching with first one finger then two, and could try to wand that there wives just had received. They must remember that fingers or wands in "backdoor" must be thoroughly washed, or sterilized before being introduced to vagina, or infections will follow. Several positions could be used, and they should experiment with at least four from the video.  They should then try anal intercourse.  But they were to ring for her before penetration, and let her observe that and make sure it was going OK. She told them they could go to their rooms.  The men seemed charged, wondering exactly what had gone on in the women's room!!  They quickly strode down the hall, some taking the box, and their wife's hand as they walked together. Bridgett wondered how Sam and her husband would do, as well as Fred and Alice.

Bridgett Supervises

 Bridgett now had some time to relax, and fixed herself a sandwich.  She looked forward to her coming chore.  She went to her room, showered also, and masturbated using a different type of vibrator than she usually did, a sample that came with their large order.  She came quickly and hard.  She had her cell phone on and waited to be called.  She hoped that the video, the nude session with all women, and the extended foreplay would all work as planned to fuel desire and relax the women in trying a technique that was new for them.  A couple of the men were quite large, and one of them was Sam's husband.  That made anal sex more difficult.  However, still doable.  They needed more stretching before hand, and the man had to learn to take his quick strokes going out rather than in,  He needed to go in as she bore down, until his penis slid in easily.

 First call was from Fred and Alice. She opened the door and saw them both nude, waiting for her.  Fred's erection had faded a bit.  Bridgett told Alice to stimulate him to get him hard again, and she proceeded to use her hands on his genitals, then suck him, and massage his prostate  Bridgett stopped her as she didn't' want Fred to climax.  The position they chose was for Fred stand next to the bed, and Alice to lay on the bed, with her buttocks to the edge, with Fred pulling her legs straight up He put a condom on, then lubed it, and waited for Alice to bear down,  gently inserted his penis into her.  Alice started to tense, then he told her to breathe out a few times, and tried again.  He put the tip of his penis against her and slowly pushed in.  Alice gasped, and tensed.  Bridgett told Fred to wait for Alice to adjust to the feeling and to relax again.  Fred waited for several minutes, then pushed in a little further.  He asked Alice to stimulate herself since he couldn't  in this position. That seemed to help, and soon Fred was able to push back and forth and Alice moved her hips up and down, getting just the right entry and pressure. Bridgett slipped out the door.  Her phone rang.  It was Sam and her husband Phil.

 Bridgett hurried to their room, and opened the door.  Sam was upset.  Bridgett asked how the shower and foreplay had gone.  They both said it went great.  But Sam was scared now, and didn't want to try anal sex. Bridgett put on her gloves and told Sam to get in the "ass up" position.  She put first one finger in, then two, and Sam was quite relaxed.  She told Phil to get behind her and stimulate her clitoris with his hand for a few moments.  Bridgett asked Phil to put the condom on, and she took the KY and lubricated him herself.  He was huge, wide, and his cock felt good to grab hold of.  She was also determined to see Sam take pride in pleasing her husband, and become more of a woman sexually.  She told Sam to exhale a few times deeply and put her two fingers in her again, and stretched her quite a bit, while she complained.  Then Bridgett reached back and grabbed Phil's cock and put it to Sam's anus, and told him to keep gentle pressure there. She told Sam to bear down and take deep breaths and exhale thru her mouth.  Slowly Phil was able to enter Sam, a little at a time.  When his head was in, Sam yelled that it hurt.  Bridgett told Sam not to move, but to stimulate her clitoris and vagina until she relaxed.  Bridgett pushed down on Bridgett's back, then rubbed it, and encouraged her, while Phil slowly penetrated her all the way.  He then pulled out quickly , then pushed back more slowly.

 Bridgett took of her glove, and put her hand on Phil's' buttocks, telling him he was doing well, and being gentle.  She waited for five minutes, and finally Sam said it wasn't hurting and they were able to try this.  Bridgett said "Phil, at your size I'm not sure it will ever be entirely comfortable for Sam.  You will always need to do lots of stretching and lubrication and foreplay if you want anal sex."  Bridgett said good-bye and left.   The other couples all did pretty well, and several tried more than four positions and showed Bridgett what they had tried.  Some giggled as Bridgett watched and made comments, or got her hands between them.  Bridgett wondered how this weekend would make a difference in the lives of these couples. She looked forward to seeing them in two months for another weekend, and see how they progressed.

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